My sense is he has a split in his emotional development. That is, he trained himself to be logical and focused on the legal intent of the law. He has focused on achievement through his intellect. However, it appears his emotional maturity has been stunted, thus the nation witnessed a thirteen-year-old emotional response to questions. Personally, I think this hearing had little to do with Bret K. I think it was a vehicle for women to rise up and voice their own trauma about sexual aggression. This hearing reminded women of their own stories. Personally, I like to see men begin to talk about their own sexual abuse stories. The boys that were molested by the mothers, sisters, cousins, teachers, family friends and neighbors. It is particularly difficult for men because instinctively they are protectors. If the statistics are true, 1 in 4 females and 1 in 7 males are sexual abused than we are surrounded by people that have suffered sexual emotional trauma. Many have this sexual trauma in a dusty file marked top secret, never to be acknowledged. Some people continued this behavior because it is how they were raised, and it is familiar pattern of life. My hope is men start talking about these hidden truths. My goal is as human beings we can love and support each other as we all heal our wounds. This is not a male or female issue, this is not a political issue rather it is a human issue about the sacredness of our sexuality.
This morning, drinking my coffee and thinking. I have more questions than answers. Once again we are faced with more deaths from someone that appears to be mentally ill with lots of guns. If we do not fund mental health, early childhood education, and general education are we as Americans responsible for all these deaths? If we are not responsible who is responsible? If we are responsible what is our response?Can we all be heroes in this and solve the problem? Are we really so helpless and passive that we can not solve this problem? When did we become a nation of fear driven living?. Is this a result of growing up in the Cold War Era living with the potential of a nuclear war? Or the result of what? I agree that guns are not the problem. The problem is people, and guess what people we need to solve this problem. How many more people have to live through this gut-destroyed grief? Well,if statistics are any indication of mass shootings we will have many more in the weeks ahead. What can you do? Register to vote, become active in your community, and simply love and respect each other with kindness.
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